Spectrum in Camouflage

Spectrum in Camouflage

A podcast about navigating life raising a child with autism and the hunt for answers.

Recent Episodes

The Power of WHY?
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June 18, 2026

The Power of WHY?

Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy. This week, Kailee joins me again for a conversation about one of the hardest questions parents ask themselves: "Why?" Why our child? Why our family? Why does life sometimes feel so unfair? As parents raising a child with profound needs, we know firsthand how easy it is to get stuck in the endless cycle of asking questions that may never have answers. We also know how damaging those questions can become when they pull us toward frustration, resentment, and hopelessness
With Kailee: ... And The Real Cause Was Stress
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June 12, 2026

With Kailee: ... And The Real Cause Was Stress

Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy. Today, Kailee is back on the podcast, and we're catching up on everything that's been happening in our lives over the past several weeks. From birthdays and family time to health journeys, stress management, journaling, and raising a child on the autism spectrum, this conversation is honest, relatable, and packed with lessons we've been learning in real time. One thing we've both realized is that sometimes the biggest challenges aren't physical. Sometimes the hardest
5 Things I Would Tell Myself 10 Years Ago
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June 5, 2026

5 Things I Would Tell Myself 10 Years Ago

Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy. Thank you for spending a little time with me today. This episode is a personal reflection on parenting, mental health, autism, faith, and the lessons I've learned over the last 11 years raising my son Wyatt. When I started Spectrum in Camouflage, my goal was simple. I wanted to spread autism awareness and support families who were walking a similar path. I never imagined the podcast would continue growing into a place where parents, caregivers, and families could find
Dad Talk with Zack Ponder: There is No Normal Life, It's Just Life
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May 29, 2026

Dad Talk with Zack Ponder: There is No Normal Life, It's Just Life

Hey, What's Up! It's Tommy. Life can feel overwhelming when you're raising a child with autism, caring for a loved one through illness, or simply trying to make it through another difficult day. In this episode, I sit down with my friend Zach Ponder for a deeply personal conversation about mindset, faith, anxiety, gratitude, and the challenges that come with caregiving. We talk openly about profound autism, cancer, fear, healing, burnout, parenting, and what it means to keep showing up when life
With Josh Stively from 1st Phorm: Purpose, Mindset, and Community
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May 22, 2026

With Josh Stively from 1st Phorm: Purpose, Mindset, and Community

Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. I sat down with Josh Stively from 1st Phorm, and what started as a conversation about health and mindset quickly turned into a deep discussion about purpose, burnout, fatherhood, anxiety, faith, community, and the reality caregivers face every single day. If you are raising a child with autism or profound needs, this episode is for you. If you feel exhausted, isolated, overwhelmed, or like your own health has fallen to the bottom of the list, this episode is for you t
With Coach Steve Krebs: Action Alleviates Anxiety, Simple Mental Health Habits That Actually Work
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May 14, 2026

With Coach Steve Krebs: Action Alleviates Anxiety, Simple Mental Health Habits That Actually Work

Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. I sat down with Coach Steve Krebs to talk honestly about anxiety, mental health, stress, and what it actually looks like to take care of yourself when life feels overwhelming. If you’re raising a child with autism, caring for someone with special needs, or simply carrying more pressure than people realize, this conversation is for you. We talked about the fear of the unknown and how anxiety pulls us out of reality and into future scenarios that may never happen. Steve