A Post Thanksgiving Special: Making Memories, Not Perfection

What's Up? It's Tommy with Spectrum in Camouflage! In this episode, I reflect on navigating family gatherings during the holiday season as a parent of an autistic child. With Thanksgiving upon us, I share insights on managing the chaos, embracing the unexpected, and prioritizing moments that create lasting memories for our kids—no matter how unconventional those moments might seem.

Let’s dive into creating a family-centered holiday experience where grace, adaptability, and love take center stage.

Key Takeaways

• Lower Holiday Expectations: Focus on creating small, meaningful moments instead of chasing perfection. It's the little things, like laughter and connection, that matter most.
• Give Your Partner Grace: Family gatherings can be stressful. Extend extra patience to your spouse or partner, especially during busy family event days.
• Be Present: Get involved with your kids—chase, wrestle, or play alongside them. These are the moments they’ll cherish forever.
• Use Tools to Reduce Stress: Simple solutions, like door knob protectors, can help keep kids safe and give parents peace of mind.
• Family Support is Key: Family members can make a big difference by creating a welcoming environment for autistic children and their families.

Let’s support one another during the holiday season! Share this episode with someone who might need encouragement or practical tips for making family gatherings more inclusive.

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