How to Offer Help to Families with Autism (Without Overstepping)

What's Up! It’s Tommy! In this episode, I’m digging into a question a friend recently asked me: How can you offer help to a family raising a child with autism without overstepping? That got me thinking about our journey, the struggles we’ve faced, and the things I’ve learned along the way.

I’m sharing some personal stories—from a snowy walk with my dog to a moment of clarity thanks to 1 Peter 5:7. I also open up about the mental challenges I’ve been working through, the importance of gratitude, and the gift of presence. Whether you’re a parent, a grandparent, or just someone who wants to be a better support to the families in your life, I hope my experiences can offer some guidance and encouragement.

Key Takeaways

• The Gift of Presence: Sometimes the best thing you can give is simply your time and undivided attention.
• Mental Resilience: Overthinking can steal your peace. I’m learning to focus on gratitude and the moment right in front of me.
• How to Offer Help: Building trust and keeping your ego out of the conversation are key to supporting families with autistic kids.
• Faith and Gratitude: For me, leaning on faith and practicing gratitude have been game-changers in tough times.
• Grace for Everyone: We all need grace—whether you’re giving help or trying to accept it.
• Referenced Verse: 1 Peter 5:7 – "Overthinking will ruin your peace. Pray and leave it to God."

I’d love to hear your thoughts! How do you navigate offering or accepting help? Shoot me an email at tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com or visit spectrumincamouflage.com.

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